Love & Personals – Some people take a firm stand against porn, while others use porn and erotic movies to enhance and spice up their sex lives. And these days, internet pornography is easily accessible to those interested, and it's very easy to hide from those who are against it. No more hiding magazines under your bed...
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Is it RIGHT to give your partner and ultimatum if they refuse to stop watching porn? Can you trust them even if they agree to stop?
I don't think this issue would be worth resorting to an Ultimatum over. In a marriage they should be used sparingly and reserved for issues that the survival of the relationship rests on. Ex-If you continue to scream at the kids etc..
Trust, well that is always a risk with anything in life. It doesn't say how often he watches it though. When is it considered excessive?
Ok I have lived this, my problem lies within itself. I made an ultimatum, 4 years ago. My fiancee has lied to me about it time and time again, I spoke with him about the situation because it seemed to me that he would rather look at porn, than have real life sex with me. I tried to compromise and told him I would watch porn with him if he wanted, he said he was too embarrassed, this was too much for me to handle. When I asked him why he watched porn, I got because it is fun?? How can porn be fun unless he is doing himself. I am not miss america, but I am cute, and offer my fiance sex when ever he wants it and how ever he wants it, so why look at porn?? I know it is a "control thing" but to be honest he does not look at it anymore, I bought porn movies and watch them myself usually when he is on his way home. Let me tell you, he does not like it. There is a compromise, and it will work if you want it to, now Its the kids that are downloading porn on their PSP's.
Hmm that is funny that he has a problem with you watching it. What did he have to say about that? It sounds to me like the problem isn't the porn per se. but the fact that you feel he would rather watch it than actually engage in actual sex. Do you think that this is a true reflection of the situation? If so that would seem to me to be a big issue.
I watch porn and I feel nothing's wrong with it. My wife does not watch porn with me (she did at first but decided it wasn't her cup of tea) but is not judgemental about it. She realizes that our marriage is secure and she has nothing to fear from my watching others having sex on videos or on the net. She understands that I have more of a sex drive than she does and if I didn't watch porn and masturbate I'd be a miserable person to be around. We've reach an accomodation and are both happy with it. That is what others have to do - reach an accomodation with each.
Better that he watch porn, than acting it out with another dame. Hell, watch it with him. You might see something you like
That is rediculuos.. as far as im concerned its just as good as cheating. What wife wants their husband LUSTING after other women. and even if it is not physically acting out, who knows what it could lead to. Porn cannot satisfy forever, so whats next? youre going to justify physically acting out because you have these "fantasies" you just MUST fulfill!? Porn is a sick perversion and ive seen it destroy my family. pretty much youd rather tell yourself its okay than practice some SELF CONTROL!.. you WONT die with out watching porn so i refuse to believe that it is necessary. ESPECIALLY if you have a wife or partner to share that with!.. when your feeling those urges go make love to them!.. dont make stupid excuse. and for all you women out there confused because everbody is telling you "its okay" its "normal".. THINK FOR YOURSELVES!.. that is the BIGGEST LOAD OF CRAP ive heard!.
Melaine, I am sorry that porn ruined your family. I was just posting the sentiment of a Men's group that I use to proxy. A lot of the guys that I dealt with had this same issue and to a man, they all lamented that they wanted to share with their wives, and that maybe they would discover together some of the moves.
Ultimately, if the guy is that strung out on it, he'll have to get help. I would suggest a 12 step program that deals with this
porn is not the only place to get moves from. and the truth is, its NEVER that innocent.. once you say its okay and start, it almost always becomes addiction. Yea a lot of guys say that they could stop. but just watch them try.. they will keep comming back to it like a bad habbit.. theyll crave it. not just men either..for both men AND women. tell me this.. if it was SO innocent and SO normal.. why do so many men feel that they have to HIDE it from their spouses and others. most men would be embarrassed if people knew what they were doing. its because all of us (with some exceptions) are born with a sense of what is right and wrong. thats why we know murder is wrong.. and steeling is wrong.. we just know.. try to explain why steeling is wrong.. we have an instinct that says IT JUST IS... i think deep down that those who watch porn must feel at least that its not ALL right.. if not just wrong!
There is nothing wrong with watching people having sex with one another. Some porn however is raw and not very good. However, if you don't like porn so be it, but stop trying to force your views on someone else. As long as he is not obsessing about it leave it be. It doesn't mean he loves you any less.
I think the first thing this woman needs to do is ask herself what is it about porn they she finds disgusting. The word disgusting sounds more like a judgment about porn or the people in. It sounds like this couple needs to talk openly and frank about sex and the porn. She can't change him and he can not change her they need to come to a happy medium or step away from each other. If there is true love and respect here then they will be able to work this out.
I find it amusing that men will spend so much time dating and even marry someone-only to completely ignore the person and stay tuned into porn all of the time.
I think it is rude and ignorant to do this in someone's presence. I don't know what is worse-the over sexed or the impotent. Both will never think they have a problem.
My girlfriend's husband had a picture of a hot babe in a bikini on his computer wallpaper. I switched it to a hot looking construction guy. Of course hubby dear was not pleased.
If I am dating someone I will only agree to watch porn if they include porn with two men doing it. None will take me up on that so I don't have to watch it.
I love wathching erotica with my husband. We have been together for twenty years, and our sex life has never been better. I know that he has more hardcore stuff that he likes to watch on his own, but I would never tell him that he could not watch it. Erotica (soft core porn) can be tasteful and romantic. Sorta like foreplay. These days, partners don't tell one another what they like when it comes to sex. If they did, maybe there would be fewer breakups and divorces.
Seems this subject has come up here before. I still don't see this as a viable method of enhancing your relationship. If you have to rely on outside stimulus to enrich your personal relationship with your spouse there is something wrong. However, the fact that you are watching porn repeatedly tells me that there are other psychological issues and you are just using your relationships as an excuse.
Humans use several methods to achieve different highs. Some require alcohol ...drugs, others like to read erotica and watch porn. It is a personal choice. The mind is a strange thing ..... a playground... a prison. If porn provides a fantasy that provides pleasure with no harmful side effects...what is wrong with that.
Sex is a vitally important human activity and sexual desire is a natural feeling given to us by God. I believe people who think consensual sex is bad are oppressed. I used to watch porn and masturbate frequently even though the Mrs. and I were having sex regularly. Then she hit her sexual peak a couple of years ago. Now, it's like living with a porn star and I rarely feel the need to "touch myself". Porn can fill the gap when one person is more sexual than the other. I think it kept us together even when I was happy but not FULLY satisfied.
i'm tired of all this "poor"nogrophy. i wanna see some "good"nogrophy. an old joke, but apt.
most american porn is designed for men, more women would watch if their interests and perspectives were better represented.
i just had an opportunity to spend some time in europe and their porn is better, more interesting to women...less coy...more atmospheric...and just as graphic as our XXX & XXXX...and it's available at no extra cost on cable TV. kinda startling to be channel surfing with mom and suddenly see graphic porn. european actors are better looking, more fetish inclined and can actually act. of course, europeans are a whole lot less repressed sexually than americans.
I have seen couple of porn, theres too much talk than the actions...sometimes it bores us or they are looking or acting stupid that dont look so porn-y ..... I am good looking but not too sexy like those girls.. but i do know how to satisfy my man.. sometimes i don't like it when my man is watching porn or on the computer looking at other chicks or talking to them...
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Is Bill Clinton Addicted? After the indictment and the collapse of his firm Paul filed suit arguing that Hillary Clinton had never properly reported his $2 million contribution to the campaign. The suit was thrown out because Paul had become a fugitive under arrest in Brazil. On his return, however the suit was refiled.
A Clinton fundraiser, David Rosen, was acquitted of three counts of election fraud but last December his superior, Andrew Grossman, admitted responsibility for three false FEC reports for which the campaign paid a fine of only $35,000.
There is one other thing, as Worldnet Daily reports: "Bill and Hillary Clinton head an all-star cast of witnesses in a lawsuit by business mogul Peter Franklin Paul that alleges the former president reneged on a $17 million deal in which he promised to promote a business in exchange for massive contributions to his wife's Senate campaign.
What does this have to do with being addicted to porn?
Huh?
Addicted to love ....Sweet Home Alabama ...(sing) Now Muscle Shoals have got the Swampers, and they've been known to pick a song or two .... How many pancakes cover a manhole? Answer: None cause ice cream doesnt have bones???????????????
Porn addiction ...hello?????
cape - I think you are addicted to inanity